New Year’s Inspiration

🎆 Happy New Year! 🎇

New Year’s resolutions can make us feel disappointed in ourselves, or overwhelmed right at the start of a new year.
I recommend focusing on 90 day goals instead!
First ask — How would I like things to be 90 days from now in the realms of work, relationships, money, health, community, and home?

  • FOCUS ON ONE GOAL PER REALM Try not to overwhelm yourself with grandiose ideas.
  • WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT? Make sure your goal is meaningful and achievable.
  • SMALL WINS Break your goal into sub-goals that are measurable and time-based (SMART goals)
  • LIST BENEFITS Create a checklist of how life will be better once succeed.
  • REWARDS Give yourself a small reward to maintain motivation.
  • PLOT PROGRESS Keep a journal, a spreadsheet or a visual board to track your work.
  • IT’S OK TO FAIL Treat any misstep or mistake failure as a temporary set-back rather than a reason to give up altogether.

S.M.A.R.T. Goals

Let’s hone in on your goal – Decide on a short-term or long-term goal using these criteria.
MAKE A MISSION STATEMENT!
You can do this multiple times and for various aspects of your life and varying time-frames.
It can be simple to start, like “Consistently stream more.” or “Finish my college degree.” or “Be known as a beauty guru.” or “Become a fitness-oriented person.”
After you finish this exercise, your goal can be re-written, and re-defined based off of the knowledge you’ve uncovered while asking yourself these clarifying questions.
The S.M.A.R.T goal framework is all about creating relevant, achievable mini-goals that help support your overall life objectives.
The acronym stands for:

S: Specific (simple, sensible, significant)


Be clear. Does “increase engagement” mean you want 100 new followers or 1,000? On which platform? What happens when you reach that?
Making your goals small and specific helps you track progress and measure success sooner.

  • What do I want to accomplish?
  • Why is this important?
  • Which resources & limits are involved?
  • What tools do I use right now and what should I change?

M: Measurable (meaningful, motivating)

Measure: Every goal needs some kind of metric. “Improve customer service” is a great concept, but it’s not a goal unless you have a way to measure where you are at right now, and what that new improvement will be, and when.

  • Which tools will I use to measure change?
    • A week from now?
    • Every Wednesday evening?
    • Every Sunday afternoon?
    • A month from now?
    • 3 months from today?
  • How will I know when it is getting accomplished?

A: Achievable (agreed, attainable)

Attainable: Your goals should absolutely require you to stretch, but they should be within reach if you put in the required work.

  • How realistic is this goal, based on my constraints, such as financials or time?
  • What tools or helpful people do I have right now to achieve my goals?
  • What do I need to improve with the resources I have right now?
  • What new resources do I need to obtain success?

R: Relevant (reasonable, realistic, results-based)

Relevant: This is the piece that ties your goal-setting back to larger objectives. If your goal involves increasing your grade point average, for example, make sure you understand how that will benefit you and how you will obtain it.

  • Is this worthwhile?
  • Is this the right time in my life to work on this?
  • Does this conflict with my other efforts & needs?
  • Am I the right person to reach this goal?

T: Time bound (time-based, time-sensitive)

Timely: Deadlines keep everyone accountable. Include a time-frame for completion of your goal so you know when to check in on your success. You might also want to include some milestones along the way for incremental check-ins.

  • When do I want this accomplished?
  • When once weekly will I check-in on myself to see my progress and adjust?
  • What can I do today?
    • A week from now?
    • Every Wednesday evening?
    • Every Sunday afternoon?
    • A month from now?
    • 3 months from today?

The idea is that effective goals embody all of these qualities.

Cybersecurity: Protection

October is National Cybersecurity Awareness Month, and therefore I’m focusing for this month on a mini-series of cybersecurity advice. (Parts of this will be discussed on this TwitchCon 2017 panel.)

A key concept is that security is an enabler, not a disabler… security enables you to keep your job, security enables you to move into new markets, security enables you to have confidence in what you’re doing.” — Gene Spafford

Protecting yourself online from malicious attacks, advertisements, malware, and people is a daunting task, with terrifying warnings and complex instructions. This article is a guided attempt, rather than a deep dive, into encouraging a more security and privacy driven mindset, especially for content creators like streamers and their moderators and editors. This advice isn’t complete nor foolproof. Best practices may change. And there’s always plenty more to do. But this is an ideal start to increases your own security to protect your (and others through you) privacy, identity, and data from potentially unauthorized access.

Password Security History: Retired National Institute of Standards and Technology manager Bill Burr admitted to The Wall Street Journal that his 2003 password guidelines were misguided. His advice, while well intentioned, directed users towards lazily predictable practices. These guidelines made passwords difficult for humans to remember, but easy for programs to guess. The newest guides published this summer by the NIST’s current Senior Standards and Technology Advisor Paul Grassi completely re-hauls these previous guidelines in favor of more secure yet friendly suggestions.

Use a password manager. KeePassX, Dashlane, Sticky Password, and LastPass are the top contenders with similar benefits and interfaces. They lock up your passwords in a vault reachable from your browser and phone (subscriptions give more features), use one master password to access (so make it a strong and memorable one!), generate randomized passwords, and auto fill web-forms. They also can send reminders to change passwords (which isn’t an issue, but handy in the event of a compromised service) or if duplicate passwords are being used in multiple places.

Randomize your passwords everywhere. Password managers like those listed above can help generate and store passwords away safely. Don’t feel as though you must default to using alphanumeric gibberish, but don’t fall back to predictable phrases like your favorite movie or pet’s names.

Do not reuse passwords on any other services, currently or in the future. You never know when a service announces a compromise, for how long, and to what extent.

Enable multi-factor authentication (2FA / TFA / MFA) everywhere. MFA makes it harder for intruders to get into your accounts even if they have your password or recovery options. You can find these settings here: Google/YouTubeFacebook TwitchTwitterInstagramSnapchatTumblrPinterestLinkedInAmazon.

Be wary of installations. Malware scripts can easily hide behind previously trusted or seemingly innocuous software and extensions. Even if the program was clean before, compromises can still occur, like how Avast’s servers for Ccleaner were targeted as a part of a wide-scale, state-sponsored, cyber-espionage campaign.

Use ad and script blockers. uBlock Origin is an open-source browser extension for filtering out several types of content related to malware, ads, and tracking. NoScript only allows JavaScript, Java, Flash and other plugins marked as trusted. It is a white-list based, pre-emptive script blocking approach, preventing exploitation of security vulnerabilities (known and unknown) with no loss of functionality.

Use anti-virus and anti-malware protection. The built-in Microsoft Security Essentials and Windows Defender work well for Windows based machines. Like condoms, don’t double use anti-virus programs for the sake of protection — they’ll fight against and disable each other. Supplement protection instead with scans via Malwarebytes, available on Windows, Mac, and Android. They also also provide an anti-rootkit beta and have a great cybersecurity blog.

Do not overshare data about yourself not critical to the service rendered — not every place needs to know your full name, address, phone number, or connect to your social media profiles.

Lock down your accounts. If you must use the same usernames across all platforms, such as being a public figure like a streamer, make sure there isn’t overlap between your public and private accounts. For personal, private accounts, do not use the same usernames, phrases, quotes, or photos. Lock down viewability access to unaccepted audiences. Like in the multi-factor section above, privacy settings for the US’s most popular social media services can be found in similar places: GoogleFacebook TwitchYouTubeTwitterInstagramSnapchatTumblrPinterestLinkedInAmazon.

Shut down old accounts. Use a service like Namechk to find and lockdown forgotten accounts (or imposters and catfishes). Use a service like HaveIBeenPwned to check if a service you’ve used in the past, or currently, has been compromised so you can reset account information and logins.

Don’t use Skype. Messages are un-encrypted and maybe be read, and by extension, calls potentially eavesdropped on. If you must use it, such as for business, select a random Skype username unrelated to your online or personal persona. Turn off direct connections for all but added contacts. Be very selective about added contacts and stay offline/invisible. If you are visiting a random city, log in and go online so that the IP last on record is not near where you live.

Guard your home address. Use a mailing address like a post office box for every interaction you possibly can.

Seal up PayPal. If you are creating a new PayPal account, start it as a basic Business account. If you are converting an existing PayPal account, become a basic Business account here. Change your contact information to a proper business email and replace the home address and contact options with a PO box.

Disclaimer! This advice detailed above is basic, beginner information to get people into the mindset of security and privacy protection, mostly geared towards public figures like streamers and their moderators and editors. There are many additional next steps to consider if you’re concerned about security and privacy: such as disconnecting use from most services, using VPNs, encrypting devices (TrueCrypt, Bitlocker, or FileVault) and emails (PGP), and chatting through Whatsapp, Signal, or Telegram.

Balancing Yourself with Twitch

Firstly, have reasonable expectations. Remember: All of this is just advice and ideas that have worked for my cast and my lifestyle. Due to timing, commitment, opportunity, and luck – even the best effort put forth may be swept under the unending wave of other content to compete with out there. It may take a while to achieve the various goals you have. This is not an exhaustive or personalized list on how to succeed, but my random, short musings based of off conversations I’ve had lately. If you have specific questions about these and other various tips, message me so I can personalize the response.

  • Put real life first. This is absolutely the most important point I will hammer into my conversations. For instance, Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs is a motivational theory in psychology depicting five basic tiers of human needs. It starts with two basic needs on the bottom of the pyramid: physiological (warmth, water, food, rest) and safety (security). These tiers are the largest and the first to pay attention to – they take the most effort and time to balance correctly, and are also the main contributor of issues and success in day to day tasks. The middle tier depicts psychological needs: belongingness (love, intimacy, friendships) and esteem (self-worth, feelings of accomplishment). These tiers help motivate us to continue to impress others through personal growth and socialization. Finally, at the top is self-actualization, which encompasses achieving personal potential, especially through creative activities, which is where activities like Twitch fall. If your job performance is suffering, if your relationships are failing, if you aren’t healthily stable —you need to work on putting yourself on solid ground in the real world first before putting too much effort into the virtual one. Plus, having a happy, healthy life full of hobbies, friends, and work makes topics you can talk about on cast and in conversations more interesting!
  • Stick to your schedule. Like a job or show, you have a time slot you’re expected to put facetime in. You can be flexible with it, such as an hour rolling start time or bonus/extra cast days, but be sure to commit to it. If your current schedule isn’t working – adjust it. If real life pops up and demands attention, communicate with your viewers about the temporary (or permanent!) change.
  • Be motivated. Why do you want to stream? Do you enjoy streaming? Do you have a unique flare? When viewing VODs, are you interested and entertained by the various things you say or do? What makes you feel like you’ve had a successful stream? What makes you frustrated during or off cast? Is your attitude during and off cast conducted to the type of community you’re building? Keep these questions in mind and reflect on how to improve and grow from them.
  • Technical quality. Make sure that your video/audio (and content) settings are of excellent quality. This varies a lot depending on the equipment you have available. There are a plethora of guides and reviews for various products and settings. Don’t overwhelm yourself with the idea that having the biggest battlestation means you’re successful, just focus on stable video/audio/content quality to start.
  • Interact. Engage with what your viewers comment on during your cast. If there’s a period of silence, keep a dialog going, even if you’re not getting responses. It doesn’t mean people aren’t listening, they just may want to lurk and enjoy instead.
  • Engage. Twitter is the biggest ‘outside’ Twitch place that the community uses to communicate with each other. Check out various Steam groups, Reddit subreddits, Discord/Curse servers, and more to find and interact with other communities. Be active, but without pushing yourself and your cast on others.
  • Network. Be friendly and engaging with other casters via raiding, chatting in cast/discord/curse/Twitter, retweeting their major events, and such. Approach like-minded and sized casters or teams to set up stream events or bounce ideas off and give support to each other. Genuinely care about their growth, and don’t look at them as a means to an end.
  • Change. Add theme weeks. Get a rebrand. Add bot games and features. Don’t be afraid.
  • Have fun. Enjoy yourself. You’re playing games or creating art and sharing it live with other people. Keep that in mind!